It’s Not You, It’s Not MePosted: October 8, 2013
When the conflict isn’t between you and me, but between what we want and what we don’t have, we have a chance to reconcile more effectively. We get all parties on the same side with our best brains and focus.
Homework: Remember your most recent conflict. How might Tom’s definition of “conflict” change how you reconciled?
Extra Credit: If you find yourself in conflict often, read The Magic of Conflict.